{"id":88,"date":"2010-04-02T17:28:52","date_gmt":"2010-04-02T22:28:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/?p=88"},"modified":"2026-09-25T03:56:07","modified_gmt":"2026-09-25T08:56:07","slug":"oprah-com-discusses-the-need-for-female-friendships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/oprah-com-discusses-the-need-for-female-friendships\/","title":{"rendered":"Can Your Husband Be Your Best Friend? Why Women Need Girlfriends"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-path-to-node=\"7\">A few years ago, journalist Rachel Bertsche wrote an essay featured on Oprah.com that struck a massive, collective nerve among adult women across North America.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"8\">Bertsche had just relocated from New York City to Chicago to move in with the man who would become her husband. She had a loving relationship, a great apartment, and a promising career. But as the excitement of the move settled, she made a startling, uncomfortable realization:<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"9\"><b data-path-to-node=\"9\" data-index-in-node=\"0\">She was utterly, profoundly friendless in her new city.<\/b><\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"10\">In the essay\u2014which later inspired her bestselling memoir <i data-path-to-node=\"10\" data-index-in-node=\"57\">MWF Seeking BFF: My Yearlong Search for a New Best Friend<\/i>\u2014Bertsche confessed something that many married and partnered women feel guilty even thinking:<\/p>\n<blockquote data-path-to-node=\"11\">\n<p data-path-to-node=\"11,0\"><i data-path-to-node=\"11,0\" data-index-in-node=\"0\">\u201cA husband is wonderful, and Matt makes me laugh. He makes me feel beautiful, loved, protected, cared for. But the idea that our spouses should be our best friends is one of those romantic notions that has been perpetuated by our mothers and grandmothers and every movie in the Meg Ryan canon. It&#8217;s a myth, and one that has probably been solely responsible for thousands of unhappy marriages.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"11,0\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-39518\" src=\"https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2010\/07\/one-sided-friendship-let-go-300x169.png\" alt=\"When to Let Go of a One-Sided Friendship: A Positive Guide\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2010\/07\/one-sided-friendship-let-go-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2010\/07\/one-sided-friendship-let-go-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2010\/07\/one-sided-friendship-let-go.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"12\">Bertsche hit on a profound truth that modern culture still struggles to admit: <b data-path-to-node=\"12\" data-index-in-node=\"79\">a romantic partner cannot\u2014and should not\u2014be your entire emotional village.<\/b><\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"13\">I founded <a class=\"ng-star-inserted\" href=\"https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/?utm_source=gemini\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-hveid=\"3\">Girlfriend Social<\/a> in 2008, and over nearly two decades, I have heard this exact story from thousands of women. Whether you move across the country for a relationship, settle down after college, or get married, relying on one person for all your conversational, emotional, and social needs is a recipe for isolation.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"14\">Here is why your partner cannot be your only best friend, what science tells us about female bonding, and how to build a real circle of girlfriends as an adult.<\/p>\n<h2 data-path-to-node=\"16\">The &#8220;All-in-One Partner&#8221; Myth<\/h2>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"17\">For decades, romantic comedies, wedding vows, and greeting cards have sold us an intoxicating fairy tale: <i data-path-to-node=\"17\" data-index-in-node=\"106\">your spouse should be your lover, co-parent, financial partner, roommate, therapist, and best friend.<\/i><\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"18\">It sounds romantic, but psychologically, it places an unsustainable burden on a marriage:<\/p>\n<ul data-path-to-node=\"19\">\n<li>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"19,0,0\"><b data-path-to-node=\"19,0,0\" data-index-in-node=\"0\">The Pressure of Unrealistic Expectations:<\/b> When you expect your partner to fulfill every emotional role, any regular day-to-day mismatch feels like a marital crisis. If he doesn\u2019t want to dissect a coworker&#8217;s passive-aggressive email for forty minutes, you feel unheard. If he\u2019d rather watch football in comfortable silence than debrief family drama, you feel disconnected.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"19,1,0\"><b data-path-to-node=\"19,1,0\" data-index-in-node=\"0\">The Danger of Emotional Enmeshment:<\/b> When your partner is your sole social outlet, your emotional world shrinks to the size of your living room. You have no independent sounding board, no lateral perspective, and nowhere to decompress when you and your partner inevitably disagree.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"20\">As Bertsche noted, expecting your husband to be your Samantha, Miranda, or Charlotte doesn&#8217;t make your relationship stronger\u2014it often leaves you lonelier than if you were single.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"20\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-39513\" src=\"https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2011\/06\/maintaing-female-freindships-while-busy-300x169.png\" alt=\"Two close female friends sharing a heartfelt conversation on a porch at dusk.\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2011\/06\/maintaing-female-freindships-while-busy-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2011\/06\/maintaing-female-freindships-while-busy-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2011\/06\/maintaing-female-freindships-while-busy.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 data-path-to-node=\"22\">&#8220;Face-to-Face&#8221; vs. &#8220;Side-by-Side&#8221;: The Science of How Women Bond<\/h2>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"23\">Why can\u2019t a great male partner substitute for a female best friend? Because male and female connection operate on completely different social wavelengths.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"24\">Sociologists and behavioral psychologists have long documented the fundamental distinction between:<\/p>\n<ul data-path-to-node=\"25\">\n<li>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"25,0,0\"><b data-path-to-node=\"25,0,0\" data-index-in-node=\"0\">Side-by-Side Relationships (Male Bonding):<\/b> Men predominantly bond over shared external activities\u2014playing golf, watching a game, gaming, or fixing something. They can spend five hours together and barely exchange five sentences about their inner emotional lives, yet walk away feeling bonded.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"25,1,0\"><b data-path-to-node=\"25,1,0\" data-index-in-node=\"0\">Face-to-Face Relationships (Female Bonding):<\/b> Women bond through <b data-path-to-node=\"25,1,0\" data-index-in-node=\"64\">verbal intimacy, self-disclosure, and emotional reciprocity.<\/b> We look each other in the eye across a table. We share our fears, our insecurities, our messy thoughts, and our joys.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"26\">When Bertsche faced a career disaster in Miami, her fianc\u00e9 Matt gave the classic, loving partner response: <i data-path-to-node=\"26\" data-index-in-node=\"107\">\u201cI can\u2019t tell you what to do, but I\u2019ll stand by your decision regardless.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"27\">It was textbook supportive. But as Bertsche confessed, it wasn\u2019t what she needed:<\/p>\n<blockquote data-path-to-node=\"28\">\n<p data-path-to-node=\"28,0\"><i data-path-to-node=\"28,0\" data-index-in-node=\"0\">\u201cWhat I wanted was someone to talk it out with me for hours. To say, &#8216;You should quit&#8217; or, even, &#8216;You shouldn&#8217;t.&#8217; Naomi, who herself had quit a job recently, stayed on the phone and walked me through the different scenarios&#8230; I needed someone who would listen as I repeated myself in case a new thought came up. Someone who would tell me what they already knew I wanted to hear.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"29\">Men fix. Girlfriends process. That deep, unhurried verbal processing isn&#8217;t frivolous\u2014as we explored in our deep dive on <a class=\"ng-star-inserted\" href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?q=https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/impact-of-female-friendships-on-well-being\/&amp;utm_source=gemini\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-hveid=\"4\">The Impact of Female Friendships on Well-Being<\/a>, it triggers oxytocin releases that physically down-regulate female nervous systems.<\/p>\n<h2 data-path-to-node=\"31\">Social Identity Support: Being Seen Outside Your Relationship<\/h2>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"32\">There is another vital reason women need girlfriends: <b data-path-to-node=\"32\" data-index-in-node=\"54\">social identity support.<\/b><\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"33\">Psychological research shows that our self-esteem relies heavily on people who validate the different facets of who we are:<\/p>\n<ul data-path-to-node=\"34\">\n<li>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"34,0,0\">Your partner sees you primarily as a romantic partner, co-parent, or life companion.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"34,1,0\">But who validates the writer in you? The pop-culture nerd? The runner? The woman who loves interior design, thrifting, or dark British comedy?<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"35\">Female friends mirror back parts of your personality that don&#8217;t belong to your domestic life. They remind you of who you were before your relationship, and who you are outside of your household responsibilities.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"36\">Having friends gives you an autonomous anchor. It makes you a fuller, happier individual\u2014which, ironically, makes you a far better romantic partner.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"36\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-39549\" src=\"https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2012\/07\/bestfriendmyth-300x169.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2012\/07\/bestfriendmyth-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2012\/07\/bestfriendmyth-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2012\/07\/bestfriendmyth.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 data-path-to-node=\"38\">The Adult Reality: Friend-Making Isn&#8217;t Spontaneous Anymore<\/h2>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"39\">The most relatable part of Bertsche\u2019s journey is how painfully awkward it is to make friends as a grown woman.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"40\">When we were in school or university, friendships formed through automatic proximity. You shared a dorm hallway or sat next to each other in chemistry class.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"41\">In adulthood, that natural funnel disappears. As Bertsche discovered trying to chat up strangers in Chicago yoga classes and bookstores, approaching women cold in public feels terrifyingly close to pickup artist territory:<\/p>\n<ul data-path-to-node=\"42\">\n<li>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"42,0,0\"><i data-path-to-node=\"42,0,0\" data-index-in-node=\"0\">Do I say hi to the woman holding the same book at Barnes &amp; Noble?<\/i><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"42,1,0\"><i data-path-to-node=\"42,1,0\" data-index-in-node=\"0\">Will the girl on the yoga mat think I\u2019m hitting on her?<\/i><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"42,2,0\"><i data-path-to-node=\"42,2,0\" data-index-in-node=\"0\">When is it okay to text someone after meeting without seeming desperate?<\/i><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"43\">Adult women don&#8217;t lack a desire for friendship. <b data-path-to-node=\"43\" data-index-in-node=\"48\">They lack a safe, clear social script.<\/b><\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"44\">Nobody wants to feel rejected, and nobody wants to feel like they are intruding on someone else&#8217;s already-full life.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"44\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-39393\" src=\"https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2026\/07\/Which-Friendship-App-Is-Best-for-You-300x169.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2026\/07\/Which-Friendship-App-Is-Best-for-You-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2026\/07\/Which-Friendship-App-Is-Best-for-You-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2026\/07\/Which-Friendship-App-Is-Best-for-You-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2026\/07\/Which-Friendship-App-Is-Best-for-You-344x194.png 344w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2026\/07\/Which-Friendship-App-Is-Best-for-You-688x387.png 688w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2026\/07\/Which-Friendship-App-Is-Best-for-You-1112x626.png 1112w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2026\/07\/Which-Friendship-App-Is-Best-for-You-728x410.png 728w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2026\/07\/Which-Friendship-App-Is-Best-for-You-516x290.png 516w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2026\/07\/Which-Friendship-App-Is-Best-for-You-1032x581.png 1032w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2026\/07\/Which-Friendship-App-Is-Best-for-You.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 data-path-to-node=\"46\">Moving Beyond &#8220;Someone Should Give Me a Call&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"47\">Bertsche\u2019s yearlong experiment involved going on 52 &#8220;friend dates&#8221; with 52 different women across Chicago\u2014using every tool available, from mutual acquaintances to platonic websites.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"48\">Her biggest breakthrough wasn&#8217;t finding one singular magical BFF; it was realizing that <b data-path-to-node=\"48\" data-index-in-node=\"88\">friendship in adulthood must be pursued intentionally.<\/b><\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"49\">If your social circle has dwindled, waiting around for a best friend to fall into your lap will not work:<\/p>\n<ol start=\"1\" data-path-to-node=\"50\">\n<li>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"50,0,0\"><b data-path-to-node=\"50,0,0\" data-index-in-node=\"0\">Ditch the &#8220;BFF or Bust&#8221; Mindset:<\/b> As we broke down in <a class=\"ng-star-inserted\" href=\"https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/do-you-have-a-best-friend-forever\/?utm_source=gemini\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-hveid=\"5\">The Adult BFF Myth<\/a>, you don&#8217;t need one movie-style soulmate who fulfills every need. Having a walking buddy, a creative confidante, and a neighborhood coffee pal builds a resilient village.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"50,1,0\"><b data-path-to-node=\"50,1,0\" data-index-in-node=\"0\">Use Dedicated, Women-Only Spaces:<\/b> Stop trying to cold-pitch strangers in the grocery store aisle. On <a class=\"ng-star-inserted\" href=\"https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/?utm_source=gemini\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-hveid=\"6\">Girlfriend Social<\/a>, every woman is there for the exact same reason: to make platonic female friends. The awkwardness is removed before you send your first message.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"50,2,0\"><b data-path-to-node=\"50,2,0\" data-index-in-node=\"0\">Explore Your Local Hubs:<\/b> If you recently relocated or need friends in your zip code, check our <a class=\"ng-star-inserted\" href=\"https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/location\/?utm_source=gemini\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-hveid=\"7\">Local City Directory<\/a>\u2014whether you&#8217;re looking for <a class=\"ng-star-inserted\" href=\"https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/location\/chicago?utm_source=gemini\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-hveid=\"8\">friends in Chicago<\/a>, Toronto, London, or smaller towns. (For women starting fresh in a new area, read our <a class=\"ng-star-inserted\" href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?q=https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/how-to-find-female-friends-when-you-move-to-a-new-town\/&amp;utm_source=gemini\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-hveid=\"9\">Newcomer&#8217;s Guide to Finding Friends<\/a>).<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"50,3,0\"><b data-path-to-node=\"50,3,0\" data-index-in-node=\"0\">Keep First Meetups Low-Stakes:<\/b> Never invite an acquaintance to a 4-hour dinner. Propose a quick 30-minute coffee walk. It gives both of you an easy exit and eliminates social anxiety.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h2 data-path-to-node=\"52\">Give Your Partner a Break\u2014Go Find Your Girlfriends<\/h2>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"53\">Love your partner. Appreciate their support, laugh at their jokes, and build a beautiful life together.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"54\">Just don\u2019t ask them to be your girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"55\">They don&#8217;t have the biological, emotional, or conversational equipment to be your female circle\u2014and that&#8217;s okay. They were never supposed to be.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"56\">Take a breath, step outside your comfort zone, and start investing in your own village. Your partner will thank you, your mental health will thank you, and somewhere nearby, another woman is waiting for you to say hello.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"56\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-39260\" src=\"https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2024\/02\/female_friends_1708934518-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"Quotes about female friendship\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2024\/02\/female_friends_1708934518-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2024\/02\/female_friends_1708934518-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.girlfriendsocial.com\/blog\/cuwoordo\/2024\/02\/female_friends_1708934518.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 data-path-to-node=\"58\">Frequently Asked Questions<\/h2>\n<h3 data-path-to-node=\"59\">Can a husband really be a woman&#8217;s best friend?<\/h3>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"60\">While a husband can be a deeply trusted companion and life partner, research and relationship experts emphasize that spouses cannot fulfill every emotional, social, and psychological need. Women require lateral female relationships for unedited emotional processing, shared life-stage validation, and stress-buffering oxytocin release.<\/p>\n<h3 data-path-to-node=\"61\">Why is making female friends so hard after getting married or moving?<\/h3>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"62\">Marriage and relocation disrupt natural social proximity. Partnered women often fall into comfortable domestic routines, while approaching strangers in adult settings (like gyms or stores) lacks clear social scripts, creating hesitation and fear of awkwardness.<\/p>\n<h3 data-path-to-node=\"63\">What was Rachel Bertsche&#8217;s book <i data-path-to-node=\"63\" data-index-in-node=\"32\">MWF Seeking BFF<\/i> about?<\/h3>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"64\"><i data-path-to-node=\"64\" data-index-in-node=\"0\">MWF Seeking BFF<\/i> chronicled journalist Rachel Bertsche&#8217;s journey after moving to Chicago with her husband. Realizing she lacked close girlfriends, she set a challenge to go on 52 &#8220;friend dates&#8221; in 52 weeks, exploring the science, psychology, and awkward comedy of adult female friend-making.<\/p>\n<h3 data-path-to-node=\"66\">Ready to Build Your Village?<\/h3>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"67\">Stop putting all your social needs on one person. 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